Religion-Outside-The-Box
Spiritualigious tools for a life of more compassion, kindness, and love.
Spiritualigious tools for a life of more compassion, kindness, and love.
An online community of the theologically-promiscuous. Led by a Jewish rabbi. Seeking meaning, reason, and connection.
✅ Belovedness
🚫 Dogma, Shame, Guilt
Hi. I'm Rabbi Brian.
Call me rB.
I stopped working for organized religion after I fantasized about God asking humanity, “So, why did you all make teams?” I started Religion-Outside-The-Box with a blog in 2006, and we’ve grown to a prison ministry, support groups, zoom services, an award-winning book, online meditation, and a sort of weekly newsletter.
Spiritualigious? I made up the word as the words spiritual + religious have baggage associated with them.and I wanted us to keep our eyes on the goal.
Look around. Enjoy.
rB
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I struggled, after leaving my pulpit job, to find a spiritual or religious community in which I felt comfortable — one free from dogma, creed, and particularism. So, I made ROTB’s Online Saturday Service.
The weekly, 8am PT service is not sage on a stage. It’s more like a wisdom-seeking, Zoom, 12-step meeting in which I facilitate discussion between people of all backgrounds and from all over the globe.
I hope reading these words make you feel like you are invited. I’d love to have you join in.
💙rB
I thank you for looking at this site.
💙rB
Every Monday morning, except for the last week of the month, I email a heartfelt, spiritualigious newsletter to member’s in-box.
The name — 77% Weekly — comes from this ratio of articles I send (40) to the number of weeks in a year (52). It’s a reminder that striving for 100% is too much.
ROTB’s 3.5K+ members enjoy starting their week with my words. (I am truly honored.)
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Don’t Believe Everything You Think
“I must be a bad person,” my friend J tells me. I called J just as I started my mid-day dog walk. He continues, “Maybe

Love4You
Hi. It’s me. Brian. Rabbi Brian. Writing to you, beloved. How are you?What’s going on?How’s life? Me?Getting used to having a house without my son.

The 4:1 Rule
4:1 Rule — It’s not easy. But it’s doable. And, worthwhile. I hear the canister signaling that the process of carbonation is complete