Rabbi Brian explains how “If you dislike someone the way they hold their spoon with offend you, if you like them they could drop a plate of food on your lap and you won’t mind” has to do with God.

Oh, Honey.
Fall, 2025 I’m sitting in my favorite chair in the living room. The sky is getting darker. It’s almost dusk. I check the time: 4:40 p.m. The dark starts early these days. Especially in the Pacific Northwest. I make a mental note to take my vitamin D in the morning. ✧✧✧ Most weeks I get a bit panicked that I





