Unconstrained Wisdom

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This is the first newsletter of February, 2024.

Hi.

It’s me.

rB. Rabbi Brian. Brian.

The author of this newsletter.

I’m addressing you directly, beloved reader.

As though we are having a conversation.

You and me.

This is because I didn’t want to do a regular newsletter, where I start with an engaging hook, set a scene, and weave in some wisdom.

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January’s first post (1/1/24) was also a letter. 

Like this one.

I thought: “Why don’t I do the first newsletter of each month, like I did in January? Like this? Conversation-like?”

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Initially, I like the idea of following the same structure for the whole year.

And, concurrently, I was itchy, certain that by June I’d feel constrained by the idea of “I have to.”

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Orson Welles: “The absence of limits is the enemy of art.

In other words, *if there were no limitations, there would be no art.*

Interesting.

Constraints can push us to figure something out (hopefully artistically).

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Phil Hansen has a TED talk, Embrace the Shake, that beautifully expresses this.
https://www.ted.com/talks/phil_hansen_embrace_the_shake?language=en

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So, maybe having the limitation—doing a monthly letter like this—will help make better art?

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If art is a response to limits faced, maybe we can reframe the challenges in our lives as opportunities for artistic expression?

Refractory Anxiety

I am supposed to arrive at the wedding rehearsal at 4 p.m. I planned on arriving 15–20 minutes early. Because I don’t like being late. However, I took a wrong turn. At the intersection of the I-5 South and the I-405 South, I went the wrong way. Now, I’ll have to turn around in a mile and a half and

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No words. No words.

To offset our discomfort about our upcoming visit to the Terezín (in German: Theresienstadt) concentration camp/ghetto, Emmett and I fall into making dark jokes. Gallows humor. “Do you think they still give free tattoos upon arrival?” “Want to wear matching pajamas for our tour?” Dark, ugly jokes.  Because reality is just too overwhelming. The feelings are too overwhelming. So we

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Has anyone seen my keys?!

Jane and the kids misplace keys. Not me. I don’t. I always return my key to the keyrack. That’s where they go. When the key isn’t on the hook, which happens from time to time, I find it on some surface in the house. Usually, the kitchen table. Then, without fanfare, I pick it up, hang it up, and restrain

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