Fighting Against Love
Rabbi Brian explain that sometimes to restore equilibrium after a wonderful event, we go to anxiety… perhaps this is why we have a hard time

Oops, I Was Too Kind
I teach high school and have a lot of students whom I look after. As it happens, some kids don’t fit the college-prep modality. Some

News is not Good for You
Recently, an acquaintance told us that a long-time friend of hers discovered her husband had been living a double life! This guy used to fly

Your Value > Their Valuation
When we were young, my sister and I used a carafe for our milk. This small black and white ceramic decanter was a souvenir my

Don’t Be Yourself!
Give yourself permission to not be yourself. What do I mean by this? Each of us operates based on a whole algorithm of qualities that

What are the Chances?
This is one of my favorite jokes: One day, Bernie hears a voice. The voice says to him, “Tomorrow, don’t park your car where you

Why Were You Not You? & Talking for God.
Reb Zusya was one of the pioneers in the Hasidic Jewish movement (This movement began as an alternative, hip-Judaism – a breakaway, renegade way of

Do Not Make Lemonade
Here’s a phrase most of us know – if life gives you lemons, make lemonade. “If life gives you lemons, make lemonade” means, “Do your

Why Are Leaders Assholes?
My friend Bobby asked me one day, “Brian, why are the people in power assholes?” I thought this was a great question. I was honored

Cure Yourself Without Work!
From time to time, I get emails back from people who read this newsletter. Sometimes they say, “That’s a great idea, Rabbi Brian. I love

Fire:Heat :: Sky:Clouds
(I have written on this quote before. But it’s worth revisiting.) In my classroom on the wall, there is what seems at first like an

Are You Open to Vermiculite’s Mystery?
Vermiculite is the lightest rock on the planet. In fact, you can easily crush it; it feels like a chick of balsa wood. And because

Change your life by Brushing your teeth differently! (OK, a bit of hyperbole)
I have a somewhat strange spiritual-religious exercise for you. Doing (or not doing) it can offer learning in the following three areas: 1. Following direction

A Reason To Believe
Sören Kierkegaard wrote: Belief is not so much a conclusion, but a resolution…belief is not a form of knowledge, but a free act, an expression

Don’t Do “Door to Door Cruelty”
I like to ask door-to-door religious salespersons, “What percentage of people are rude to you?” The answer is always above 75%. I am told that