Rabbi Brian takes on two spurious spiritual-religious notions, “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade” and “I’m as happy as I make my mind up to be.”

Refractory Anxiety
I am supposed to arrive at the wedding rehearsal at 4 p.m. I planned on arriving 15–20 minutes early. Because I don’t like being late. However, I took a wrong turn. At the intersection of the I-5 South and the I-405 South, I went the wrong way. Now, I’ll have to turn around in a mile and a half and

