Rabbi Brian talks about how most of this stuff is all in our heads. “If you dislike someone the way they hold their spoon will offend you. But, if you like them, they could drop a plate of food on your lap and your wouldn’t mind.”

Mark was wrong
Mark is smart. He’s one of my smarter friends. He is able to contort his words so as to not split an infinitive, as I just did in this very sentence. (Mark would have written, so as not to split an infinitive.) ⟡⟡⟡ Four or five years ago, Mark’s youngest child—assigned female at birth and named Clara—told him that they

