Rabbi Brian talks about how most of this stuff is all in our heads. “If you dislike someone the way they hold their spoon will offend you. But, if you like them, they could drop a plate of food on your lap and your wouldn’t mind.”

Rabbi Brian Doesn’t Understand
In the 18th century, in Hannipol, a small district of Khmelnytskyi Oblast, in present-day western Ukraine, there was a rabbi known as Reb Zusya. Zusya, a pious man, taught about humility and had a strange habit of referring to himself in the third person. Instead of saying, “I am hungry,” or “I don’t understand,” he would say, “Zusya is hungry,”

