Rabbi Brian give you permission to not be you… the thinking is that we spend so much time and thought trying to be “good” that we forget that we don’t need to try so hard.
A Letter
May 4, 2026
Beloved, Let me tell you something I often say when counseling those mourning the loss of a loved one. “Unless you are a rabbi or minister, you shouldn’t be good at writing eulogies.” And then I add: “Let me give you a pro tip—think about writing a letter. Because you know how to write a letter and this way you
